i am trying to write the book review for the local paper about this book, so i'll just post on here the un-professionally-worded (ok, that's not a word) quick thoughts now that i have finished the book, "if i am missing or dead" written by janine latus.
i feel totally, completely, through my entire body and mind...emotionally drained. when i was a child i read this book by a psychologist titled
no language but a cry.i was in junior high school and it woke me up to an entirely different world of abuse and heartbreak than i had ever seen. as an adult, i would have to say that this book by janine has done the same.
janine's book is about her sister and her too-soon death at the hands of an abusive boyfriend. before picking up the book and reading it, i thought based on descriptions that this was going to be a grief recovery type of book, one that would be more about the aftermath of amy's death. it is much more about what led her down the path into the wrong mans arms and about strength... of family, of her family as individuals.
i'm rambling. i think all women with daughters should read this book. not just to see how to protect their daughters from the outside world but to remind them that sometimes there's an inside world that they need to protect them from too, that what happens in their own lives and how they allow themselves to be treated will lead to how their daughters are treated. that's all for now.
on to read a happier book and back to this one soon.
susie